In Memory of Gaby


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With Love from Gaby, Dave, Bonnie & Clyde

 auntyuta  DiaryLife in AustraliaMemories  July 12, 2014 2 Minutes

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Gaby came down with poliomyelitis on her fourth birthday. That was in 1961. When she was 32, in 1989, she left institutional care and moved into her own home in Merrylands West, a Western suburb of Sydney. David (Dave) became her full time carer. But as a quadriplegic with breathing difficulties who needed to sleep in an iron lung, she needed several people to come in on a daily basis to look after her diverse needs.

Anyhow, Gaby was happy to leave the home for disabled people and move into her own home. 40 year old David did for nearly twenty years a marvellous job in doing whatever he could for Gaby. But in the end his health deteriorated more and more. It became impossible for him to the the things for Gaby he would normally have to do as her carer. It was a rather sad situation. Gaby knew that David needed help but she did not know how to provide this for him.

Gaby and David both loved animals. Soon after moving in Gaby acquired a companion dog provided by the people who train dogs for blind people. Dave liked that dog too. They called her Bonnie. A cat named Clyde became Bonnie’s companion. Gaby just adored her animals. They were like her children. She always saw to it that they had everything they needed.

Gaby with Bonnie
Gaby with Bonnie
Gaby with Clyde
Gaby with Clyde
Bonnie and Clyde in front of the gas heater
Bonnie and Clyde in front of the gas heater
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Bonnie is being spoiled!
Bonnie is being spoiled!

I happen to have still a Christmas card from Gaby and Dave with a calendar for 1998 in it. The card came with a book: A Tolstoy biography by A.N. Wilson, first published in Great Britain in 1988. This is a great reference book and a great read. Gaby chose this book for me as a Christmas gift. She did choose very well. She always took great care to choose gifts for all the family for birthdays and for Christmas. Of course her funds were limited. So she always looked for bargains. Quite often her choices were astoundingly good.

This is the outside of the card.
This is the outside of the Christmas card.
And this is the inside of it.
And this is the inside of it.
Gaby moved her electric chair with her chin, she used her mouth stick for phone and computer.
Gaby moved her electric chair with her chin, she used her mouth stick for phone and computer.
Here she looks like having grown up a bit more.
Here she looks like having grown up a bit more.
Here she is in her bedroom getting ready for the day.
Here she is in her bedroom getting ready for the day.
After Gaby lost Clyde, she did get a new kitten.
After Gaby lost Clyde, she did get a new kitten.
Blackie, the kitten, grew into this.
Blackie, the kitten, grew into this.
Gaby is having fun seeing Father Christmas.
Gaby is having fun seeing Father Christmas.

Sadly Gaby lost Bonnie. She was lucky that after some time she was given a replacement dog which she called ‘Honey’.  Honey was quite skinny at first but soon filled out a bit.

Gaby can celebrate Christmas 2003 with companion dog Honey.
Gaby can celebrate Christmas 2003 with companion dog Honey.

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Auntie, Sister. Grandmother, Great-Grandmother, Mother and Wife of German Descent I’ve lived in Australia since 1959 together with my husband Peter. We have four children, eight grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. I started blogging because I wanted to publish some of my childhood memories. I am blogging now also some of my other memories. I like to publish some photos too as well as a little bit of a diary from the present time. Occasionally I publish a story with a bit of fiction in it. Peter, my husband, is publishing some of his stories under berlioz1935.wordpress.com View all posts by auntyuta

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10 thoughts on “With Love from Gaby, Dave, Bonnie & Clyde”

  1. cardamone5EditThese pictures, and your narrative, warm my heart.Fondly,
    ElizabethReply
    1. auntyuta EditThank you very much for your response, dear Elizabeth.
      Sincerele,
      Aunty UtaReply
  2. berlioz1935EditGaby was a great character and was loved by all who had contact with her. She never forgot a name or face. On Monday it is two years that she past away suddenly.Reply
    1. auntyuta EditTwo years have passed. We do remember her.
      Thanks for the comment, Peter.Reply
  3. catterelEditShe lives on in your hearts – such happy memories. Blessings xReply
    1. auntyuta EditThanks, Cat. 🙂Reply
  4. aussieian2011EditA beautiful sad story to read Uta, a story of a Princess and her Prince Charming.
    David is to be commended for his love and loyalty, that is a beautiful picture of Gaby
    at her computer desk.
    Regards
    IanReply
    1. auntyuta EditYou are too right there, Ian, love and loyalty do play a great part in this beautiful and sad story.
      Gaby at her computer desk, this is indeed a lovely picture. 🙂
      Thank you, Ian, for your heartfelt comments.
      Very much appreciated!
      Many thanks,
      UtaReply
  5. auntyuta EditReblogged this on auntyuta and commented:This is a reblog in memory of Gaby.Reply
  6. auntyuta EditJust having read the whole story once more and looking at all the pictures that go with it, I cannot help myself, I feel I want to reblog this again in memory of Gaby!

To think of Gaby on her Birthday I copied this blog

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Celebration of Gaby’s Life

 auntyuta  Life in AustraliaMemories  July 14, 2014 1 Minute

Gaby died on the 15th of July 2012. This is going to be two years ago tomorrow. I copied here a post I published two years ago as a celebration of her life. The pictures show a lot of her carers, friends and family. We all remember you, Gaby.

Give thanks to the

Lord, call on his

name; make known

among the nations

what he has done.

Sing to him, sing

praise to him; tell of

all his wonderful acts.

Psalm 105; 1-2

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  1. cardamone5EditDear Aunty Uta:I am so sorry for your loss, but also happy that you appreciated and celebrated Gaby’s spirit both during and after her life. Lovely passage and photos. My heart goes out to you, friend.Fondly,
    ElizabethReply
    1. auntyuta EditThank you so much, dear Elizabeth. I very much appreciate your comment. Gaby’s photos fill out a great place in our hearts and memories.
      Sincerely,
      Aunty UtaReply
  2. auntyuta EditI thank all the carers for the outstanding care they’ve been giving Gaby over many years. I love you all!Reply
  3. elizabeth2560EditI am sure you will always miss her and love her, and there is so much loss and sadness.
    I admire you for your celebrating of Gaby’s life and to think of her life in positive ways.Reply
    1. auntyuta EditHi Elizabeth, yes in lots of ways Gaby made sure that we are always going to remember her. She has been very much a family person, even for all these years when she lived apart from her family. Over the years it became more and more apparent, how brave she actually was. Thinking back over her life now, her braveness is something that maybe we did sometimes not fully comprehend but took it somehow for granted. I think she deserves that we celebrate her life, for she showed us how to enjoy life, even when it means to have to overcome a lot of difficulties.Reply
  4. rangewriterEditI’m sure July 15 is always a horrible day for you.Reply
    1. auntyuta EditTo be honest, Linda, last year July 15 did not stick as much in our minds. Maybe the memory of her is felt a bit more every year! 🙂Reply
  5. The EmuEditA beautiful celebration tribute to Gabys life Uta.
    May her memory be a celebration of her life every day for you.
    IanReply
    1. auntyuta EditYes, somehow or other we seem to remember her every day. Thanks for your comment, dear Ian.
      UtaReply
  6. auntyuta EditReblogged this on AuntyUta and commented:I published this post six years ago and wrote in a comment: ‘I thank all the carers for the outstanding care they’ve been giving Gaby over many years. I love you all!’ Looking at the photos again, I am reminded again of the excellent care Gaby has been given and how this enrich the last years of her life! Tomorrow is going to be the 8th anniversary of her dying. Gaby, you are not forgotten!
    Here is something else I wrote in the comment section six years ago:
    ‘in lots of ways Gaby made sure that we are always going to remember her. She has been very much a family person, even for all these years when she lived apart from her family. Over the years it became more and more apparent, how brave she actually was. Thinking back over her life now, her braveness is something that maybe we did sometimes not fully comprehend but took it somehow for granted. I think she deserves that we celebrate her life, for she showed us how to enjoy life, even when it means to have to overcome a lot of difficulties.’

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Make your garden even greener with these five tips to reduce plastic waste

ABC Radio Melbourne / By Matilda Marozzi

A pile of plastic pots, a bright green plastic watering can and a bag full of soil in soft plastic in a backyard.

Single-use plastics can be hard to avoid when gardening.(ABC News: Matilda Marozzi)

In any garden shedor store you can find dozens of plastic products, including old pots, tools, containers, or soft plastics full of fertiliser, dirt or compost.

If you’d like to cut down, permaculture educator Anna Matilda, also known as The Urban Nanna, shares five achievable ways to start.

For Ms Matilda that doesn’t mean “chucking out all your plastics and buying eco-friendly”.

“I need to take care of the things that I already have that are plastic,” she told ABC Radio Melbourne.

“And then make sure I’m not bringing in any new plastics, or buying things in plastic.”

To coincide with Plastic Free July, here are her tips:

1. Grow from seed (or source from people who do)

One of the hardest things to avoid are single-use plastic pots.

While there are sustainable alternatives available, including pots made from recycled cardboard or coconut fibre, Ms Matilda can’t think of any major Australian retailers or plant producers using these on mass.

One way to avoid new plastic pots is to grow things from seed.

“For a lot of people, that’s really daunting,” she says.

“Maybe you [could] aim at that in a few years’ time, and in the meantime see if there are some local people who are already growing from seed.”

Ms Matilda says local permaculture communities are a great place to find plants that have been grown locally in recycled pots.

The people involved may also be able to help you to start growing from seed yourself.

A few dozen seedlings on a pallet table outside a front yard with bunting.
A number of homegrown seedlings for sale in recycled plastic pots.(Supplied: Anna Matilda)

Plus, Ms Matilda says “people in permaculture communities are just always giving stuff away and swapping things” including seeds.

So, as well as reducing your plastic footprint, you may be able to save some money.

Anna, the Urban Nanna, talks to Lisa Leong about plastic free gardening(Supplied)

2. Reuse and recycle pots

Many gardeners will already have a pile of plastic pots somewhere in their yard.

Ms Matilda says finding ways to reuse or recycle them is a great way to reduce waste.

“If you do need bigger plastic pots, you know, if you want to upsize something … reuse those pots year after year,” she says.

“That means having a little space where you can store things effectively out of the sun, so they don’t degrade and break down with UV.”

Assorted plastic plant pots stacked up against a brick wall
Re-Using Plastic Pots

If you don’t have a use for pots you already have, Ms Matilda recommends trying to give them away in a local community group rather than throwing them out.

Some nurseries or hardware stores also accept clean plastic pots for recycling.

You can also improvise and create your own pots by repurposing a tin can, cardboard toilet rolls or making pots out of recycled paper.

A number of seedlings being propogated in recycled toilet rolls.
Growing seed in toilet-roll tubes.(Supplied: Anna Matilda)

“You basically can just wind a bit of paper around a tin can and smoosh the end of it, so it closes off and it becomes a tiny little pot,” she says.

“The wonderful thing about them is that you can actually pick up each one and transplant it wholesale, as it is, without disturbing the roots.”

Egg cartons can also act as a good alternative to seed trays for shallow rooted, fast growing plants including peas and lettuce.

3. Buy or borrow quality tools

If you need a new piece of equipment Ms Matilda recommends trying to avoid cheap plastic tools, particularly ones that have lots of moving parts.

“They will break and then you’re left with a large tool that you can’t reuse and usually can’t recycle because it’s made up of lots of different bits and pieces,” she says.

Instead, Ms Matilda suggests saving up and buying good quality items.

“Made of metal if you can, and then take good care of it,” she says.

“Look at quality over quantity.”

If you can’t afford a $70 pair of secateurs right now, why not try and borrow?

“A lot of areas now have things called a tool library … where you can actually go and use really good quality tools that have been bought by this initiative, and they’re available to the community for free,” she says.

For those without a tool library in their area, Ms Matilda says it is always worth asking another gardener if you can borrow the piece of equipment you need.

4. Avoiding soft plastics

The soft plastics involved in buying compost, manure and potting mix is a big issue gardeners face when trying to go plastic free.

Ms Matilda says a great way to avoid some of this plastic is to get a worm farm or make your own compost.

It’s also a great way to reduce food waste.

“Making compost is basically acting like a forest floor and layering dry brown stuff and soft green stuff,” she says.

“It’s nowhere near as hard as you think.”

If you aren’t up for composting, Ms Matilda says your local gardening group may have a communal compost heap where you can go and fill up your own bag.

A youg gardener sitting in the garden next to a wheelbarrow and  a compost bay.
Composing Compost

You could also try a no-dig garden bed, or buying in bulk from a local wholesale garden supplier.

“If you can, get a cubic metre delivered and it comes without packaging,” she says.

“If you don’t need that much you can try and get a group of gardeners together, share the supplies and split the bill.”

5. Speak up

While trying to avoid buying plastic is one solution, Ms Matilda says getting companies to stop selling new plastic could be even better.

Ms Matilda says we all have some power to vote for change with our dollar and our voice.

“Get upset about the amount of plastic that’s out there and become that person who writes an angry letter to a company and says ‘This isn’t good enough’,” she says.

“They’ll pass that up the line and eventually we should be seeing a bit more positive change.”

Trudy Smith had always dreamed of being a painter, but she did not pick up a paintbrush until she was 85.

 / By Kate Stephens and Stan Shaw

Posted Tue 1 May 2018 at 6:37amTuesday 1 May 2018 at 6:37am, updated Thu 6 Sep 2018 at 1:46pmThursday 6 Sep 2018 at 1:46pm

102-year-old painter Trudy Smith(ABC South West: Kate Stephens)

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Trudy Smith had always dreamed of being a painter, but she did not pick up a paintbrush until she was 85.

Now 102, Ms Smith said it was a mixture of loneliness and newfound freedom that gave her the courage to start pursuing her passion following her husband’s death.

“The one thing I wanted to do was to paint,” she said.

“I never did very much before that because he [husband] was very critical.

“It has taken quite a while but suddenly I have realised that it is lovely to be free of everything.

“You can say what you like, you can do what you like and you can think what you like.”

A close up of a landscape painting in a golden frame hanging on the wall, two more paintings are hanging to the left of it.
Trudy Smith says she never plans what she paints, but rather waits for the image to come to her “from” the canvas.(ABC South West: Kate Stephens)

Into the light

Some of Ms Smith’s latest work, ranging from colourful abstract art to landscape pieces, will feature in an exhibition at her local seniors community centre in Eaton, in Western Australia’s south-west.

She said organising the exhibition had been a lot of work, but she is not looking forward to the attention.

“I’m not very happy about meeting people and talking about my own things at all,” Ms Smith said.

All her paintings are organic with very little planning involved.

“I know some artists are very frightened of a blank canvas,” she said.

“When I see a blank canvas I just love it, and I can sit and look at it and the picture comes to me from the canvas.”

A senior woman pointing to her artwork which is an abstract, colourful piece in a golden frame hanging on a white wall.
This piece named ‘Are We There Yet’ will hang as part of Trudy Smith’s latest exhibition.(ABC South West: Kate Stephens)

Embracing your inner weed

Trudy Smith had always wanted to be a painter, but it was not the life her father, a doctor, encouraged.

“I was sort of a misfit,” she said.

She saw herself as the weed growing in the middle of her family, a position she encouraged other black sheep to embrace.

“Be a weed — then you belong to everywhere or anywhere,” she said.

A senior woman with a flower shirt holding a paint brush standing in front of artwork on an easel in a golden frame.
Trudy Smith spends most of her time painting in her studio at the back of her house.(ABC South West: Kate Stephens)

Say ‘yes’ to life

Ms Smith spends most of her time painting in her studio at the back of her house.

She is often asked how she keeps fit and healthy at her age but she said there is really no secret to it.

Instead, her advice is to just give anything a go, like painting in your senior years.

“Sometimes in life you think shall I do something, shall I move, shall I get married, should I have another child,” she said.

“Always when I have had that feeling of ‘shall I?’ The answer is ‘yes.'”

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