From August 1987 to May 1988

Half Marathon finishing at Stuart Park, Wollongong, 23-8-1987

Peter is still in full flight after 1hr27:33, which is his best time so far.
Peter is still in full flight after 1hr27:33, which is his best time so far.
Martin goes across the finishing line.
Martin goes across the finishing line.

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This is a school portrait of Caroline that she sent to her grandmother in Berlin.
This is a school portrait of Caroline from 1987 that she sent to her grandmother in Berlin.

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On a Sunday in 1987 this picture was taken at Albion Park Station by an enthusiastic  passenger: Peter with Caroline and the Twins.
On a Sunday in 1987 this picture was taken at Albion Park Station by an enthusiastic passenger: Peter with Caroline and the Twins.
Tristan is two and a half years old riding his bike at Ashfield, Dec. 1987
Tristan is two and a half years old riding his bike at Ashfield, Dec. 1987
Christmas Eve 1987 at David's Parents Place.
Christmas Eve 1987 at David’s Parents Place.

Caroline tries to take a picture of Tristan playing, Peter looking on. Grandma Uta enjoys watching Tristan.

Peter with Caroline and the twins at Belmore Park in Sydney. Dec.1987
Peter with Caroline and the twins at Belmore Park in Sydney. Dec.1987
This is already May 1988. It is Peter's Birthday!
This is already May 1988.
It is Peter’s Birthday!

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We have Lunch at Chinatown in Sydney for Peter's Birthday.
We have Lunch at Chinatown in Sydney for Peter’s Birthday.
Caroline, Tristan and also Troy and Ryan enjoy a ride at Darling Harbour.
Caroline, Tristan and also Troy and Ryan enjoy a ride at Darling Harbour.

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Another photo from Peter's Birthday. Tristan is already very tired.
Another photo from Peter’s Birthday. Tristan is already very tired.
Gaby and David go back to Merrylands West in a Wheelchair Taxi.
Gaby and David go back to Merrylands West in a Wheelchair Taxi.

 

Pictures from June 1987

Down the straight towards Tongara Road Level Crossing. June 1987
Down the straight towards Tongara Road Level Crossing.
June 1987

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When Peter took these pictures from Stony Range Hill he must have been waiting for a train from the other direction going with a steam locomotive on that day in June 1987.

Ah, here it is: A special steam train with full steam at Oak Flats Station!
Ah, here it is: A special steam train with full steam at Oak Flats Station!
Now heading up to Croom Tunnel
Now heading up to Croom Tunnel
The Steamer disturbs the Horses!
The Steamer disturbs the Horses!
Up the Hill!
Up the Hill!
Some time in June 1987 we went with Caroline and her friend Amy to the Nowra Animal Park.
Some time in June 1987 we went with Caroline and her friend Amy to the Nowra Animal Park.

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Family Pictures from May 1987

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Ryan and Troy playing Footy  in May 1987
Ryan and Troy playing Footy in May 1987
Where is this line leading to?
Where is this line leading to?

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Waiting for a train to arrive?
Waiting for a train to arrive?
Steps to nowhere! Mt Murray, May 1987
Steps to nowhere!
Mt Murray, May 1987
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Caroline and the Twins
Caroline and the Twins
Troy
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The beautiful bush at Mt Murray
The beautiful bush at Mt Murray
Uta is jogging a bit.
Uta is jogging a bit.
Martin plays with Tristan at Kangaroo Valley after his 10 km run on the 31st May 1987.
Martin plays with Tristan at Kangaroo Valley after his 10 km run on the 31st May 1987.

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Uta relaxes in Kangaroo Valley on the 31st May 1987.
Uta relaxes in Kangaroo Valley on the 31st May 1987.

Vivid Sydney 2015

Yesterday evening the family stayed in the city of Sydney for a while to see some of the lighting festival. Peter and I left Sydney a bit earlier. We went back to Dapto on the train. We were home just before 7 pm. We were glad to be home early.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vivid_Sydney

Vivid Sydney is an annual outdoor lighting festival with immersive light installations and projections in Sydney. Part of the lighting festival also includes the performances from local and international musicians and an ideas exchange forum featuring public talks and debates from leading creative thinkers.
The event is held during winter in central Sydney over the course of three weeks in May and June. The centrepiece of Vivid Sydney is the light sculptures, multimedia interactive work and building projections that transform various buildings and landmarks such as the Sydney Opera House and Sydney Harbour Bridge in and around the Sydney CBD into an outdoor night time canvas of art.[2]
During the 2015 festival, sites of interest were Central Park, Chatswood and the University of Sydney as well as around the CBD, Darling Harbour and The Rocks

TIDAL REED GARDEN

http://www.vividsydney.com/event/light/tidal-reed-garden

Tall feathery reeds glowing with gentle light line a wharf running at right angles to the Opera House. Swaying and bobbing with the movement of the water, the reeds send light dancing across the harbour’s rippling surface.
Tidal Reed Garden

When:
22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight
Price:
FREE
Location
Campbells Cove, Sydney NSW 2000

Colourful images of Sydney’s flora and fauna are projected onto Customs House, draping the stately sandstone columns and balconies with glowing vegetation and animal life.
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FREE // Circular Quay // 22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight

Orbs of various sizes connected by a framework form an irregular domed structure that shines with gentle blue light. Within the orbs and connecting bars, sparks of light intensify and fade in reaction to the touch and movement of participants.

FREE // Circular Quay // 22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight

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FREE // The Rocks // 22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight

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FREE // Campbell’s Cove // 22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight

A huge Rococo pig adorned with flowers and filigree sits on an ornate platform. Around it, Rococo piglets stand within a square of four towering chairs decorated with flowers and curlicues.

FREE // The Rocks // 22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight

The darkness of a shipping container narrows to triangular mirrored space in which shifting colours and lights are reflected from all sides, creating an array of patterns stretching into the darkness.
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FREE // The Rocks // 22 May – 08 Jun, 06:00 pm – Midnight

Artist: Aura (Gioia Murray and Louise Jarvis)
Country: Australia

Tidal Reed Garden is a bed of artificially produced reeds that float along the line of a harbour wharf. At night the reeds become glowing, sculptural illuminations that cast dancing reflections on the water.

Each reed is shaped to mimic a natural water reed and are animated by the swell of the water, movements in the tide and wash from passing ferries.

Tidal Reed Garden celebrates the beauty and power of elements in nature. Artists Gioia Murray and Louise Jarvis’ approach to the work was developed through their ongoing interest in biomimicry – design that seeks to be sustainable by emulating nature’s time-tested patterns and strategies.

THIS EVENT HAPPENS IN CAMPBELL’S COVE
A small bay on the eastern shore of Sydney Cove, Campbell’s Cove is named after Robert Campbell, a Scottish merchant who arrived in Sydney in the late 1790s and established a highly successful import/export business operated out of storehouses and a jetty on its shores. See what else is happening in Campbell’s Cove

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Queen’s Birthday Weekend in Australia in 2015

This weekend is a long weekend in Australia. It is the Queen’s Birthday Weekend. This means tomorrow, Monday, is going to be a public holiday.

Ice-Cream from MESSINA
Ice-Cream from MESSINA

This shop is in Sydney, not far from the Griffin Theatre. We went there yesterday for some ice-cream after the theatre matinee performance. We all love this ice-cream (gelato) very much!

 Gelato de Messina! Homemade on the premises.
Gelato de Messina! Homemade on the premises.

 

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Peter took this photo of the four of us in front of the theatre. It is great for me to be able to remember this day that we spent with our two daughters and a grand-daughter.
One daughter took the following photo of us waiting at a bus-stop:

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When we were in Melbourne towards the end of last year we had an excellent dinner at this
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We knew Messina Ice-Cream from Sydney and were happy to find that there was a MESSINA Ice-Cream shop also in Melbourne. We went there at night time. This photo shows how popular it is:

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And on another night we went for Haxtaburgers at this place which is opposite from MESSINA’S:

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An Article from the SATURDAY PAPER on Citizenship-Stripping

https://www.thesaturdaypaper.com.au/news/politics/2015/06/06/citizenship-stripping-and-abbotts-jihad-civil-rights/14335128001974#.VXNWR9Kqqko

JUN 6, 2015
Citizenship-stripping and Abbott’s jihad on civil rights

SOPHIE MORRIS
The practical results of revoking citizenship are yet to be seen, but the threat has already served its purpose in the party room.

In his final report last year as independent national security legislation monitor, Bret Walker, SC, recommended the government have the power to disown dual citizens involved in terrorism if it would not make them stateless.

Now the barrister and former president of the Law Council of Australia fears the government is going too far and is considering a regime that could be unconstitutional.

In particular, he is concerned that allowing the immigration minister, rather than the courts, to determine whether someone is a terrorist and revoking their citizenship on that basis leads to a very dark place.

Other legal experts have described it as “Kafka-esque”.

“They mustn’t do this,” Walker tells The Saturday Paper. “I really would like them to draw back and make it clear that of course they’re not talking about a ministerial parallel to a criminal process.”

“The people we’re talking about are not deterred by blowing themselves up … so they’re not going to be deterred by being deprived of citizenship.”
It is indeed a bizarre turn of events, when Malcolm Turnbull and conservative Liberal senator Cory Bernardi find themselves on a unity ticket against counterterrorism proposals being pushed by Tony Abbott and most of his backbench.

This week the government was divided over an issue that goes to the core of the power of government and the role in a democracy of the rule of law.

In the latest counterterrorism frenzy, the government will introduce legislation within weeks allowing the immigration minister, Peter Dutton, to strip dual nationals of Australian citizenship if they are involved in terrorism.

Even without seeing details of the legislation, Opposition Leader Bill Shorten has been goaded into expressing “in-principle support” for this measure, which extends existing laws that revoke citizenship if dual nationals join a foreign army that is fighting Australia.

Abbott wanted to go further and apply the measures to Australians who have no other citizenship but who might be eligible to apply elsewhere. On this, he was rolled by his cabinet last week. In an extraordinarily detailed leak of cabinet debate, The Sydney Morning Herald’s political editor, Peter Hartcher, revealed that six cabinet ministers had risen up against the proposal, with some warning that it trashed the rule of law and could leave people stateless.

Turnbull denied he had any hand in the leak, as did Foreign Minister Julie Bishop, as Machiavellian theories circulated about the source and whether it was designed to damage the prime minister or his rivals.

Turnbull went on to publicly opine, at a press conference on Wednesday, about the importance of the rule of law and its role in restraining the actions of government. On questions of national security, he said: “It is not good enough that laws simply be tough, this is not a sort of a bravado issue, it is that they have got to be the right laws”.

Bernardi went further, saying the proposal to allow a sole national to be stripped of citizenship at the whim of a minister was “the sort of power creep that I think is very dangerous from any government”.

Abbott was more concerned with instinct than the rule of law. “We know, instinctively, that anyone who raises a gun or a knife to an Australian because of who we are has utterly forfeited any right to be considered one of us,” he said in parliament, before demanding Labor declare its hand.

Most of the backbench rallied to support him, including some who had sought in February to end his leadership. Forty-four Coalition MPs in the house of representatives signed a petition urging him to extend the measures “not only to dual nationals, but those eligible for the citizenship of another country”. If this were adopted, even Australians with no other citizenship could lose it and end up refused re-entry to Australia or detained here indefinitely.

When Liberal backbenchers handed around the petition in question time last Thursday, they did not bother to ask Philip Ruddock for his support. Ruddock, known as Father of the House because he is the longest-serving MP, would not have signed it anyway.

He argues it would be inappropriate, as he is supposed to be jointly leading a national conversation on these matters, in his new role as the PM’s special envoy for citizenship and community engagement. He says he does not come to this role with preconceived views.

However, he does believe that laws to revoke citizenship could deter some would-be terrorists.

“We’re making sure people understand, when they become Australians, there is a commitment to accept and honour the laws of Australia and there are consequences if you don’t,” he tells The Saturday Paper.

“Those consequences may be jail but they may also be, for some, deprivation [of citizenship]. And I’m saying, in my view, it is not unreasonable to assume that some people might be influenced by that and, if they are, I think that is a good thing.”

Ruddock invokes the rule of law, but rather than Turnbull’s notion of it as a limit on government power he characterises it as something that those who take Australian citizenship must respect. “I think deprivation is about focusing people’s minds on why it is undesirable to not observe the rule of law,” he says.

According to Hartcher’s detailed reports, several cabinet ministers felt the proposals pushed by Dutton, with Abbott’s backing, would undermine the rule of law.

He wrote that Barnaby Joyce, George Brandis, Christopher Pyne, Turnbull and Bishop all raised objections, and Kevin Andrews warned that targeting sole nationals would be even more controversial in the community than in cabinet.

Although Walker argues there are valid national security reasons for revoking dual citizenship, he rejects the suggestion it is a deterrent.

“We can put safely to one side all thought of deterrent value,” he says. “The people we’re talking about are not deterred by blowing themselves up or being shot down by jet fighters, so they’re not going to be deterred by being deprived of citizenship.”

Curtin University researcher and counterterrorism expert Anne Aly goes further, saying the measures play right into the hands of the terrorist movement, which entices people with the promise of citizenship of a new Islamic State.

“They want people to go there and become stateless,” she says. “That’s what they’re banking on. They are building their state with the lost souls of those who have been lured into their web and find no escape. Why we would want to give them that is beyond me.”

She also warns that the discourse around citizenship-stripping could risk inflaming tensions and fuelling feelings of isolation and disenchantment for some Australian Muslims.

“Hopefully the government will be smart about this and will not frame this in a way that only further contributes to an already tense and volatile relationship between the government and the Australian Muslim communities that they are also elected to represent,” says Aly.

The cabinet split forced Abbott to ditch plans to legislate that sole nationals could be targeted and instead incorporate this into a discussion paper. He has appointed Ruddock and parliamentary secretary Concetta Fierravanti-Wells to oversee consultation on the measures and on citizenship more broadly.

Ruddock, a former attorney-general and immigration minister, is a curious mix of national security hawk and champion of multiculturalism and inclusion. It was the more dovish side that surfaced in one debate this week.

Liberal MP Andrew Nikolic, who was promoted to the Coalition whips team when Ruddock was shafted from it in February, moved a rather bellicose motion supporting the government’s approach to national security, no doubt designed to pressure Labor. Ruddock seconded the motion. Some MPs who spoke on it gave in to the urge to thump their chests about the threat of terrorism, but Ruddock struck a different tone. He argued the numbers of people involved were relatively small and “we ought not to allow ourselves to demonise whole communities because of the actions of individuals”.

At this stage, Ruddock won’t say whether he considers stripping sole nationals of citizenship to be warranted or legal. But he does imply there are good arguments for it, suggesting terrorists might renounce claims to citizenship elsewhere if being a sole national ensures their Australian citizenship cannot be revoked.

He also tackles another controversial dimension of the proposals, mounting the case for the immigration minister, rather than the courts, having the power to decide if someone loses their citizenship.

“With terrorism, there is difficulty getting what I regard as normal admissible evidence,” he says. “Very often, you are reliant upon intelligence and the difficulty with intelligence is that, if you put it into the public arena, particularly even informing the individual about whom you have concerns, you are exposing the very people who might help inform you.”

This argument worries Walker.

“It’s just not good enough to say that conviction is difficult,” says Walker. “Well, yes, so it is, but why on earth would you say, ‘We are going to pass laws to permit people to be punished in advance of, indeed without even trying to, convict them’? What an extraordinary thing to say about the rule of law.”

Walker adds that giving the minister this power could be unconstitutional, as revoking citizenship would be punitive. Under the constitution, only a court can rule on punishable offences. Conviction for Commonwealth offences requires a judge and jury.

Kim Rubenstein, the director of the Australian National University’s centre for international and public law, says any citizenship revocation proposals, whether of dual or sole nationals, would certainly face legal challenge.

“There would be a very strong case that it’s beyond the power of the Commonwealth to strip individuals of their citizenship,” she says. “This potential change is a reversion back to a notion of subjectivity in terms of the power of the state, which I think is very unhealthy in terms of the rule of law democratic framework.”

Constitutional lawyers have also flagged that a compromise put forward by the minister for social services, Scott Morrison, to suspend certain citizenship rights, would clash with High Court rulings enshrining the rights of citizens to enter and remain in Australia.

Walker says the current debate about citizenship-stripping falls into a category of lawmaking he describes as primarily designed to “encourage a kind of mutual pretence between the government and some people and some commentators that something is being done about something which is deplorable”.

But he fears that the rhetoric could backfire. “It is glamorising and rendering more important than they really are the adherents to and supporters of these dreadful terrorist movements. You only have to follow the inquest into Monis [the Lindt cafe hostage-taker and murderer] to know how dangerous all that can be.”

Australia is not alone in considering banishing those who support IS. The model being pushed by backbenchers and by Abbott resembles a recently enacted British regime, with broad ministerial discretion. New laws in Canada give the minister power to revoke citizenship, but only on the basis of a conviction.

Professor of law at the University of Toronto Audrey Macklin writes in a recent publication that denationalisation has long been a tool used by states “to rid themselves of political dissidents, convicted criminals and ethnic, religious or racial minorities”.

“The latest target of denationalisation is the convicted terrorist, or the suspected terrorist, or the potential terrorist, or maybe the associate of a terrorist. He is virtually always Muslim and male,” writes Macklin.

“Citizenship-stripping is sometimes defended in the name of strengthening citizenship, but it does precisely the opposite. The defining feature of contemporary legal citizenship is that it is secure. Making legal citizenship contingent on performance demotes citizenship to another category of permanent residence. Citizenship revocation thus weakens citizenship itself. It is an illegitimate form of punishment and it serves no practical purpose.”

For Abbott, it may have already served its practical purpose. He has posed as “instinctively” tough on terrorism, tougher indeed than his leadership rivals. He has issued a veiled threat to cabinet ministers that leaking has “political and personal consequences”. He has rallied backbenchers around him and forced Labor to pre-emptively declare “in-principle” support for laws it is yet to see.

Talking terrorism makes Abbott feel secure and it’s a theme on which he will continue to focus. But he still has to deal with a deeply divided cabinet.

Lies and the Truth

Today Peter and I were in the Griffin Theatre with two daughters and one grand-daughter. We saw the play THE HOUSE ON THE LAKE. The five of us went to a close by Indian Restaurant for a great lunch before the matinee.

http://www.griffintheatre.com.au/whats-on/the-house-on-the-lake/

THE HOUSE ON THE LAKE
BY AIDAN FENNESSY

A criminal lawyer with a cool head and a passion for logic, David wakes up to find himself confined to a small, sparsely furnished room, unable to remember what happened the day before. With the help of his doctor, David begins to coax memories out of the darkness, before the details of a terrible secret emerge.

Razor sharp and tourniquet tight, The House on the Lake is a psychological thriller so crafty it’s criminal. Mired deep in layers of deception, it’s a puzzle of a play certain to engage the intellect and assault the nervous system.

The House on the Lake is a twisting labyrinth of playwright Aidan Fennessy’s devising. Director Kim Hardwick leads the way through.

Commissioned by Black Swan State Theatre Company and developed with the assistance of Playwriting Australia.

I agree that this psychological thriller is quite an assault on the nervous system.
It deals with the problem of what to do when you are being lied to, and how difficult it can be to find out the truth.
Also what your reaction might be if you feel you are very seriously being attacked. How do you survive? Is it possible to survive?

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Pictures courtesy of Griffin Theatre

Uta’s Diary, towards the End of May 2015

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This picture we took when this cafe had just been opened. This was a few years ago. It took the place of a book shop. Not many book shops in our area have survived. Over the years we have been to this cafe a few times. We like their coffee. We also like their hot chocolate.

The other day we had lunch in this cafe before we went to a close by cinema to see THE WOMAN IN GOLD. This movie did grab me emotionally.

This movie did not get a very high rating. I would have rated it much higher. I did not find it boring at all. On the contrary. And I found all the actors very good.

Maria Altmann, an octogenarian Jewish refugee, takes on the Austrian government to recover artwork she believes rightfully belongs to her family.

Director: Simon Curtis
Writers: Alexi Kaye Campbell, E. Randol Schoenberg (life story), 1 more credit »
Stars: Helen Mirren, Ryan Reynolds, Daniel Brühl

Biography
Maria Altmann was born on February 18, 1916 in Vienna, Austria-Hungary as Maria Viktoria Bloch-Bauer. She was an actress and writer, known for The Rape of Europa (2006), Woman in Gold (2015) and Adele’s Wish (2008). She was married to Friedrich Altmann. She died on February 7, 2011 in Cheviot Hills, California, USA.
Waged a seven-year legal battle against the Austrian government to recover five works by Gustav Klimt, commissioned by her uncle, which were seized by the Nazis when Austria was annexed in 1938, including two done of her aunt, Adele Bloch-Bauer. She sold “Adele Bloch-Bauer I” (1907) to Ronald Lauder in 2006 for a then-record $135 million. The four other works brought $192.7 million at an auction later that year.
Played by Helen Mirren in Woman in Gold (2015).
After she moved to Los Angeles, her brother-in-law Bernhard Altmann sent her a cashmere sweater, not yet available in the United States, with a note: “See what you can do with this”. She sold the sweater to Kerr’s Department Store in Beverly Hills. The resulting demand for cashmere enabled her to start her own clothing business. Among her clients was Caroline Brown Tracy, mother of Spencer Tracy. Bernhard Altmann was forced to sign over his Vienna textile plant to the Nazis in 1938 in exchange for the release of his brother. Having immigrated to the United States in 1941, he added cashmere wool fiber to his New York City-based yarn trading company in 1947. He then re-launched his Vienna factory and opened a factory in Texas, undercutting Scottish manufacturers, which had the cashmere wool market cornered at that time.

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Three years ago, in 2012, we took this winter picture of Lake Illawarra. Well, from next Monday on, the first of June, our winter season has started. But if you ask me, we’ve been in the midst of winter already for the last few weeks. The nights are dreadfully cold, and during the day it does not get very warm either.

Before I got up out of my warm bed this morning, I was planning in me head what I would cook today. I knew I still had half a cabbage and some carrots and sweet potatoes in the fridge. Also onions, ginger and eggs. Peter had one Kranski left and there was some nice sweet Muscato wine in the fridge. Later on I managed to make a lovely meal out of all this. It would have made a nice picture, especially topped with some fresh parsley!

Instead of the wine Peter preferred to have some water with some apple cider vinegar in it. The ginger pieces I cooked together with the the orange vegetables in some vegie broth. I took them out, cut them into very small pieces and added them to my meal on the plate since Peter does not care to have ginger pieces in his meal. But he had nicely fried Kranski sausages. And we had a fried egg each.

I found this meal very satisfactory. I rounded it off with an espresso coffee. Peter did not want any coffee, but he did the dishes. I had my coffee while I was wiping some of the dishes and putting them away. Peter is going to have some afternoon coffee and cake later on, while I am looking forward to have a pot of tea to warm me up in the afternoon.

Well, today seems to be a day, when it shows that Peter and I have sometimes different likes and dislikes. But I think this all right. As the French say: Chacun a son gout!

UTA’S DIARY

When I start getting a cold I immediately increase the amount of Vitamin C. I also take some Olive Leaf Extract. And I try to rest as much as possible. As far as I remember I still felt all right on Wednesday, the 6th of May when I went for a walk in the morning. Towards evening that day I started to shiver, the throat felt sore and all my limbs felt very heavy. I also sneezed a lot. So I started with the above treatment and retired to my nice warm bed. Still, I worried a bit, whether I would feel well enough to go to Wollongong early the following morning to keep the appointment with my specialist.

On Thursday Peter drove me to Wollongong for the 9 am appointment. I told the receptionist that I had a cold and weather it was still all right to see the doctor. It turned out, I was able to see the doctor who asked me in and then did all the required tests. I felt lucky that my nose had dried up, for some of the tests involved some stuff that went through my nose. The doctor happily told me that there was nothing wrong with me: I was free of any signs of cancer. He said it was close to four years now since I had my operation on the tongue. So in one year’s  time I should come back for another examination. But this would be the last time that I had to come for check-ups. He said, that it was very unlikely that any lesions would come back five years after surgery.

Thereafter Peter drove me straight back home. Thursdays I usually go to a one hour Gentle Exercise Class. But on that Thursday I preferred to stay home to have a good rest. The following day I also cancelled the games afternoon with my lady friends. The following days I took great care to dress extra warmly. I saw to it that a small electric heater always stood close by to keep me warm. I was thinking that under no circumstances would I want to go anywhere where there was air-conditioning blowing on me!

By Monday, the 11th of May, I was well enough to go with Peter on the train to Sydney for the court hearing about the circumstances of Gaby’s death. On Tuesday, the 12th, there was another court hearing. Both days we were able to catch an early afternoon train back home. The people who talked to us in Sydney were all very friendly. We thought that as far as we were concerned this inquiry by the coroner went very well. The coroner as well as the assistant coroner, who talked to us a lot. were both woman. Also one of the testifying doctors was a woman.

The following Thursday Ayleen and I turned up for the Exercise Class. To my surprise there was no class that day. Somehow I had totally forgotten that on that day the Seniors Citizen Group had a late Mother’s Day luncheon at the club. So the previous Sunday had been Mother’s Day, that’s right. I felt actually well enough on that day to go with Peter to our daughter Monika’s place for afternoon coffee and cake. The place was full with all of Monika’s children as well as her partner Mark’s daughter and Mark’s mother and the mother of Mark’s deceased wife.

Apparently Mark had a hectic working week last week, and he ended up with a cold. Still he managed to come to the big birthday celebration at the German Club on Saturday, the 16th of May. That night he warned me several times not to get too close to him for he had a bit of a cold. I said to him not to worry, I already did have a cold the other week, and I was sure I would not get it again.

Our son Martin had booked a flight from Melbourne to Sydney to stay with us for 48 hours to celebrate his Dad’s 80th Birthday. He nearly missed his flight back to Melbourne on Sunday. But this is another story.

On Saturday most of the family came to our place in the afternoon for coffee and cake before we went to the German Club for dinner. Peter and Caroline made a few pictures on that occasion which I have in my computer now, and I can show some of them here:

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Big Meal for Peter at the German Club.
Big Meal for Peter at the German Club.

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Veal Schnitzel and dumplings for me.
Veal Schnitzel and dumplings for me.

Everyone could order what they felt like. For entrees there was Rollmops, or baked Camembert cheese or soup.
Most people got German beer from the tap. Ebony left soon after dinner with the two little darlings, our great-grandsons. There were later on 12 people left for the welcome drink, a nice sweet bubbly.

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I wrote this on the 28th of April 2012

“Last Thursday we saw Gaby in Merrylands. She waited for us near Merrylands Station. Honey, her dog, was with her. Honey had been bitten by a big dog a bit over a week ago. She had needed some stitches which cost Gaby a lot of money. On Thursday these stitches were due to come out. We didn’t have to go far from the station to the vet’s surgery. Honey had her stitches out in no time. She seems to be all right now.”

This is what I wrote a bit over three years ago. It brings back to mind, how this happened that Honey got bitten. This vicious dog who bit Honey belonged to a woman who was nasty to Gaby. I think she shouted at Gaby, something very unpleasant. As far as I know, she was about the only person who ever treated Gaby in a nasty way. Otherwise Gaby always experienced a lot of kindness from people she met. I seem to remember that Gaby thought that this woman was jealous because she noticed that Gaby was always treated in a very kind way by people.

A few weeks later, when we were walking along with Gaby  somewhere in Merrylands,  Gaby pointed out to us a woman and a man with a big dog. Gaby said that this was the dog that had bitten Honey. She also said that the police had cautioned these people that they should  take better control of their dog. Gaby had great expense paying for the treatment of Honey after she had been bitten so severely. However Gaby  thought it would be of no use asking these people for compensation. She did not want anything to do with them. I think that woman had once abused Gaby before this incident with Honey. Gaby was just glad that this woman kept her distance after that incident with Honey.